Going through a separation can be one of the most difficult experiences for anyone at any age. But more and more, it’s how a growing number of retirement-age couples are beginning the next phase of life.

Facing this scenario? You’re certainly not alone. While the overall divorce rate has been stable in recent years, it’s more than doubled for those 55 and older since 1990 (FIGURE 1). For those over 65, the rate nearly tripled,¹ particularly for couples in second marriages.² 

The potential causes of this so-called “gray divorce” vary. However, what matters most for those exiting marriage is what comes next. With one out of four breakups happening later in life now, divorce has become a growing obstacle in retirement for millions of Americans.³ Without careful planning, many may be on worse financial footing than their married or widowed peers.⁴ 

Steps to a Brighter Financial Future

Take the following proactive actions to start your solo financial journey.

1. Make New Investment Decisions
   One spouse may have assumed a majority of the financial decisions. If you actively handled things, be proactive and reach out to your financial professional to discuss. If you’re the one who wasn’t part of the conversations, talk with your financial professional to catch up on what you need to know now.
   
   
2. Create an Investment Plan for One
   Most of the graying divorced have only a fraction of the assets of married peers. Develop a new strategy to help maintain your goals. Your financial professional may be best equipped to evaluate and help make adjustments.
   
   
3. Calculate New Expenses
   Bottom line: The monthly expenses you’re responsible for essentially just doubled. If you’re planning to live on a fixed income, those extra expenses need to be factored into a new long-term plan. If you had stopped or planned to stop working, you might have to reevaluate.
   
   
4. Get Your Own Insurance
   Your old policies included both spouses. It’s time to secure your own individual insurance coverage—whether that be health, life, disability, homeowners, or automobile. Don’t forget to review your beneficiaries, too. Your financial professional can be a great resource to help you determine your needs and refer you to an insurance professional, if necessary.
   
   
5. File Your Taxes Separately
   Not yet divorced? You can file your last return as married filing separately. New divorce settlements made since 2020 will convey new tax implications as alimony income will no longer be taxed, and alimony payments won’t be tax-deductible. Contact your tax professional to let them know your situation and to discover the best options.